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Exercise and Sleep

From the NYT: Does Exercise Help You Sleep Better? Maybe, maybe not.

[T]he most practical advice that science can offer at the moment about exercise and sleep is not to fret too much about whether you’re getting enough of either. Worrying, as the Swiss study showed, is what will keep you awake long into the night.

 

Guided Meditation Page

Alongside lots of other downloadable/streamable stuff at audiodharma.com, here’s a page of Guided Meditations (also downloadable and streamable). Lots to choose from–different approaches, different voices, different lengths, from 5 minutes to 50.

Therapy Apps

From NPR: Mental Health Apps: Like A ‘Therapist In Your Pocket’.

[On one app,] [t]hroughout the day at random times, a “mood map” pops up on a user’s cell phone screen. “People drag a little red dot around that screen with their finger to indicate their current mood”…Users also can chart their energy levels, sleep patterns, activities, foods eaten and more, she says.

 

Study: Be Nice

Newsflash?  Daily Appreciation Helps Romance. In study-ese:

“Gratitude triggers a cascade of responses within the person who feels it in that very moment, changing the way the person views the generous benefactor, as well as motivations toward the benefactor. This is especially true when a person shows that they care about the partner’s needs and preferences.”

The Future v. Fibromyalgia

From PsychCentral: Cell Phone Therapy for Fibromyalgia.  Virtual reality and accelerometers! Background:

Fibromyalgia is a complex and chronic pain syndrome which causes generalized pain and deep exhaustion, among other symptoms. It is a serious public health problem, more usual among adult women, and causes significant negative psychological effects. In fact, 35 percent of affected patients suffer from depression and anxiety.

A TMS/stress illness doc might want to look into which came first…

Your Brain on Love

A study shows scans of love-struck brains look the same in China as they do in the West.

Regions of the brain related to addiction and even mental illness light up on the scan when a person sees a photo of his or her beloved…[New] scans showed that love lights up the brain in the same manner, regardless of ethnic background.

Against “Halfalogues”

From the Los Angeles Times: Cellphone conversations we overhear really bug us. “Hafalogues” distract, annoy, and impair, says a study:

[P]articipants were seated at computers and asked to perform various cognitive tests while exposed to one of the three sounds or silence.  Hearing the halfalogue was the only background noise that distracted the study participants and lowered their scores on the cognitive tests.

Passionate Marriage (in 6 Simple Steps)

Couples’ lit spotlight: Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships, by sex/relationship therapist, David Schnarch. The book samples actual sex therapy sessions to make its case.

Don’t care to read 400 pages about how differentiation?  Try the six-point plan linked from Schnarch’s website, posted here minus the explanations:

  1. Operate from the Best in Yourself.
  2. Sustain eye contact with each other out of bed.
  3. Try Hugging ’till Relaxed.
  4. Make eye contact in bed.
  5. Change your style of sexual interactions.
  6. Pay attention to depth of involvement with your partner during sex.

Also via PassionateMarriage.com, here’s a Sex in Relationships Survey, which pretty much communicates what Schnarch is aiming at while rating your sex life on a 11 – 55 scale.

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